Sometimes, buying gifts for a
partner can be tricky, especially if your partner is one of those people that
doesn’t talk about things they want or like very much. There are ways to find
out what your significant other wants, and part of that is by being on
high-alert for information when there aren’t any gift-giving opportunities
coming up.
For instance, near Father’s
Day, gifts for men are everywhere, and he might not talk much
about things that he wants in that time. However, in the middle of May when
there’s nothing coming up, he might let his guard down a bit. To help you with
your quest to find the quintessential gift for you partner, we’ve put together
a list of things to keep in mind during your search.
Interests
Firstly, and perhaps most
obviously, you should examine your partner’s interests to see if there’s
anything they love or they need in those interests that you could provide for
them. Does your girlfriend adore vintage clothing items, or antique farming
equipment? Maybe a subtle trip to a country antique center will lead her to
reveal to you exactly what she wants unwittingly. Does your boyfriend
absolutely love comic books? A convention in your home city can be the ideal
place to see what grabs his eye.
Hobbies
Hobbies are the next thing to
consider, especially if you’ve been together a little longer and you’re looking
for a bit more of a substantial gift to give. If your partner loves threadwork,
sewing, or clothing-making in general, why not get them a high-quality sewing machine? If your girlfriend is interested in
furniture making, there are plenty of hand tools and smaller power tools you
can buy to get her started.
Lifestyles
A lifestyle-based gift is
something a little more substantial again, and can include something large like
a furniture item. If your significant other loves reading by a window, maybe a
high-end comfortable chair to sit in can be your gift of choice. Alternatively,
if you find that they love getting up early to run 5mk before work, maybe a
really nice pair of running shoes will help them in that particular lifestyle
choice.
Quirks
Quirks are better to base
smaller gifts off of, and often can be something little to give to someone on
any ordinary day. There are plenty of places to buy small trinkets and gifts
from on the internet, and more than ever, quirky things are becoming common items
to find online. If your partner is fond of picnics, you can get them a tortilla-styled blanket to use on days out, or if he likes a
particularly funny image, you can find websites that offer blankets and pillow
cases printed with that image.
Wants
Buying someone something they
outright tell you that they want is the easiest way to pick a gift for someone,
but it also means they’re likely going to know what you got them and therefore
will be less surprised. There’s less espionage involved in outright buying a
gift for someone that they’ve stated they want, but there’s also less
guesswork.
Needs
Buying someone something they
need is a kind of grey area in gift-giving, because while it is something that
they will appreciate and use, it’s also likely less fun and spontaneous than a
gift that they’d just like. Things like a new pair of shoes when the old ones
are wearing through, work pants when the original pair don’t fit, a new set of
wheels for a car, or anything else that can be considered a “need” all make
great gifts, but they might not hold the “magic” of a wanted item.
Experiences
Finally, for the tight-lipped
person who refuses to acknowledge any gift-giving days or is constantly
vigilant in not telling you what they want, experiences are the answer. Your
partner might feel bad about being given an expensive gadget or gizmo, but a hot
air balloon ride over a vineyard will last a lifetime in their mind.
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With these tips you are now
equipped to buy a present for any person, for any occasion, so there’s no
reason to hold back any longer! Get out there and find the perfect thing for your
special someone.
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